Someone told me that when we are caring about others, it does not show whether we treat them as friends, because this action only shows that we are nice ppl. And if someone does anything which u appreciate a lot, that also doesnt necessarily mean that they treat u as friend, becoz it only shows they are nice.
well...I quite disagree with this point of view. To me, I only care about ppl whom I treat as friends. And for those ppl that I dont really care, I will still be nice to them. Hence, no matter they are friends or not, I will juz treat ppl as nicely as I could. But it is only friends that I will feel deeply sad when they are hurt, I will be happy if they have any gd news 2 share, and the saddest case is when my friends no longer need me to listen to their stories.
Everyone has his or her own definition of being nice. Hence, if anybody did anything that is quite bad to u, u really can not complain a lot, becoz they are juz not as nice as u expected them to be. So what is the solution??
hehe...maybe the best way u can do is to have a ping chang xin.. coz no matter wat happened, things will finally work out. Anyway, the world is like this..Everybody has his or her own personal concerns, so maybe we juz wait until our friends have solved their problems, then sooner or later they will come back to us...
Friendship will only sustain if we believe in the importance of it. Sometimes this belief takes time, and some enduring process also.
I always learn somethings from daily experiences. And I still believe that one day I will finally be able to manage any unexpected challenges in my life.
p.s.: Revision muz start soon! Tmr??
About Me
- The Pursuit of Happiness
- I am a typical Aries! Like to smile and to be cheerful.. always try my very best to achieve my goals! like to make friends -- friends are the most important element in my life...(yup, so far its true!) Like to encourage others to move on, like to help others, (and I do believe tt that is how one can find his or her true value...)I ENJOY playing the piano, and can juz play anything with both hands after I hear any piece of music, this is really sth. I am very proud of..and I listen to music whenever its possible..hmm.. sometimes I am a little bit sensitive, and often think over things so much tt I am afraid to move forward..but..life is full of opportunities and challenges, so juz try my best and find out what is the meaning of life..I am always pursuing happiness..
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